We all have dreams of what we think our life could be like. One of my modern romance dreams was to have a high school sweetheart or a childhood friend that I married. How wonderful to marry a person that you’ve known for most of your life! You would be forever surrounded by people who had known you since you …
Lies the Church Tells about Sex
Last month, I really dove into the purity movement in my blog posts. This month, I’m going the complete opposite direction (in some ways). Let’s talk about sex. My husband and I went through a marriage enrichment program at our church a few months ago. One of the weeks, the leaders invited a couple who run a non-profit for those …
The History of Singleness in The Church (And Why You Should Care)
In my humble opinion, February is the worst month (you can read more about my feelings here). You just want winter to be over, but it’s still in full force. If you’re single, February can be a terrible month for another reason: February means Valentine’s Day. Valentine’s Day means an awkward day where you don’t have any special someone to …
Your Secret Sins Affect Me
I recently came across this extremely thought provoking quote by Dietrich Bonhoeffer about how what we do as individuals impacts the body of Christ (aka the church): “[T]here is no sin in thought, word, or deed, no matter how personal or secret, that does not inflict injury upon the whole fellowship. An element of sickness gets into the body; perhaps …
Are You For Real? Lessons In Determining Authenticity in Church
Being a part of the church can be hard. While the church is Christ’s body here on earth, it’s still filled with messed up people. It’s not supposed to be, but it can also be a place where we “rank” people according to their spiritual maturity. It can be easy to throw around a lot of spiritual language because it …